what matters to guys

I read somewhere that two things ultimately matter to a guy in his marriage: the number of times he gets obligation-free sex and the amount of criticism he doesn't get. That make total sense to me. I love sex and I hate nagging. I hate nagging so much though that I actually prefer being single than being in a relationship. It's getting worse too. As I get older and the girls I date get older, there is an additional factor that makes a relationship even less palpable : the pressure to get married. Ugh.